At contra dances I'll sometimes skip out on the initial partnering
  to see if there's someone who didn't end up with a partner but would
  like one.  I've done this the most at dances where I have some sort
  of responsibility in the group (bida, the contra dances at
  swarthmore), but I try to do it whenever I notice people getting
  left out.  This works pretty well at getting people in, especially
  new people.  The main way it doesn't work is if I get asked to dance
  by an experienced dancer when I intend to be doing this.  I can
  avoid that somewhat by making myself scarce refilling water pitchers
  or whatever, but sometimes people who are fun to dance with and will
  not be having any trouble finding a partner ask me right away.  I
  can say "I'm sorry; I'm looking for a left out newcomer to dance
  with" but that's kind of strange and a bit of a mouthful.  I think
  what I need is a name for this activity.  Is there one already in
  use somewhere else?  I'd like to be able to say "sorry, not this
  dance, I'm [name-of-this]ing".
  
  Another advantage of a name is that even if the person I'm talking
  to doesn't understand me at the time beyond "jeff won't dance, need
  to find a different partner", if they come talk to me later I can
  give more detail and it will have a name attached.
  
 
  
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