{"items": [{"author": "Robin", "source_link": "https://www.facebook.com/jefftk/posts/491770137524674?comment_id=491807437520944", "anchor": "fb-491807437520944", "service": "fb", "text": "Did you slashdot yourself?<br><br>Oops! Google Chrome could not find www.jefftk.com", "timestamp": "1361293219"}, {"author": "Jeff&nbsp;Kaufman", "source_link": "https://www.facebook.com/jefftk/posts/491770137524674?comment_id=491823500852671", "anchor": "fb-491823500852671", "service": "fb", "text": "@Robin: working now?", "timestamp": "1361296817"}, {"author": "Robin", "source_link": "https://www.facebook.com/jefftk/posts/491770137524674?comment_id=491837980851223", "anchor": "fb-491837980851223", "service": "fb", "text": "yes", "timestamp": "1361299380"}, {"author": "Eli", "source_link": "https://www.facebook.com/jefftk/posts/491770137524674?comment_id=491846687517019", "anchor": "fb-491846687517019", "service": "fb", "text": "I was a bit bothered by Yvain's idea about how to check for people being cis-by-default (ask cis people if they're really happy they are); it seemed to potentially test more for ability to be frightened by counterfactuals.<br><br>Personal example: I've had really horrible emotional experiences over distant acquaintances' deaths, but can imagine just about anyone I know dying without actually feeling fear about that. So, before anyone I knew had died, I assumed this meant that I wouldn't have negative emotional reactions if someone I knew really did die.<br><br>Your test has its confounding factors too, but seems overall much better. Good post. :)", "timestamp": "1361301698"}, {"author": "Ursus", "source_link": "https://www.facebook.com/jefftk/posts/491770137524674?comment_id=491936404174714", "anchor": "fb-491936404174714", "service": "fb", "text": "I just read this, and I would be one of the people who doesn't really have a \"gender identity,\" and I know I have difficulty understanding people who do. My relationship with gender is similar to an atheist's relationship with God. I don't bring it up unless other people do, though, because most of the time I simply do not care.", "timestamp": "1361320260"}, {"author": "Jeff&nbsp;Kaufman", "source_link": "https://www.facebook.com/jefftk/posts/491770137524674?comment_id=491942597507428", "anchor": "fb-491942597507428", "service": "fb", "text": "@Ursus: it sounds like your type of not having a gender identity is different from the type Yvain identifies with.  Yvain writes of not feeling strongly about it but falling into 'male' because that's where our culture pushes him, while it sounds like you do feel strongly and try not to get pushed into 'male' or 'female'.", "timestamp": "1361322009"}, {"author": "Lynn", "source_link": "https://www.facebook.com/jefftk/posts/491770137524674?comment_id=491969837504704", "anchor": "fb-491969837504704", "service": "fb", "text": "I have a bigger problem with the stereotypes and societal expectations that people attempt to impose on me or on themselves as a reflection of assumed gender identity than I do with the parts I was given at birth. That is my confusion with the trans issue. I do not see how I would interact with my body or society differently if my biological assignment were different. This does not in any way reflect a judgement on people who feel like being transgender, transhuman or any other body change/identity change is what they need to do to reflect an inner authenticity.", "timestamp": "1361330794"}]}