{"items": [{"author": "Mary", "source_link": "https://www.facebook.com/jefftk/posts/651700270312?comment_id=651706308212", "anchor": "fb-651706308212", "service": "fb", "text": "thanks for sharing, Jeff and Julia! Wedding expenses can be a big challenge and my advice to anyone is to decide on your priorities. As with your wedding, payment to professional musicians and dance callers is looking like the biggest chunk of our wedding expense, which I think is the ideal priority :)", "timestamp": "1394806751"}, {"author": "Sophia", "source_link": "https://www.facebook.com/jefftk/posts/651700270312?comment_id=651708054712", "anchor": "fb-651708054712", "service": "fb", "text": "this is relevant to my interests.", "timestamp": "1394808204"}, {"author": "Boris", "source_link": "https://www.facebook.com/jefftk/posts/651700270312?comment_id=651708863092", "anchor": "fb-651708863092", "service": "fb", "text": "Thank you for sharing! Very relevant to my interests :)", "timestamp": "1394808730"}, {"author": "Miles", "source_link": "https://www.facebook.com/jefftk/posts/651700270312?comment_id=651718159462", "anchor": "fb-651718159462", "service": "fb", "text": "I'll just note that I never cashed the check you (ridiculously!) provided me.", "timestamp": "1394812646"}, {"author": "Jeff Kaufman", "source_link": "https://www.facebook.com/jefftk/posts/651700270312?comment_id=651722640482", "anchor": "fb-651722640482", "service": "fb", "text": "@Miles: You put in a bunch of work; you deserved the money. Not ridiculous.", "timestamp": "1394815838"}, {"author": "David Chudzicki", "source_link": "https://www.facebook.com/jefftk/posts/651700270312?comment_id=651723129502", "anchor": "fb-651723129502", "service": "fb", "text": "I've never been sure how to feel about the awkwardness in friends compensating each other in money. It can be frustrating, but I think maybe it's also serving a useful purpose. Not sure.", "timestamp": "1394816188"}, {"author": "David Chudzicki", "source_link": "https://www.facebook.com/jefftk/posts/651700270312?comment_id=651723254252", "anchor": "fb-651723254252", "service": "fb", "text": "(It's more awkward compensating with money for labor than possessions.)", "timestamp": "1394816290"}, {"author": "Pablo", "source_link": "https://www.facebook.com/jefftk/posts/651700270312?comment_id=651723608542", "anchor": "fb-651723608542", "service": "fb", "text": "\"This was a good five years; the next five should be similarly good\"
The next five should be better.
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3332527/...", "timestamp": "1394816593"}, {"author": "Mac", "source_link": "https://www.facebook.com/jefftk/posts/651700270312?comment_id=651723668422", "anchor": "fb-651723668422", "service": "fb", "text": "1) Money is no substitute for taste and imagination.
2) Next to the bride and groom, the most important thing at a wedding are lots of friends.
3) Next to the marriage, the best thing that can happen is that all those friends have a good time.
Congratulations, guys! Looks like you did it right. Looks like you're doing it right.", "timestamp": "1394816657"}, {"author": "David Chudzicki", "source_link": "https://www.facebook.com/jefftk/posts/651700270312?comment_id=651723698362", "anchor": "fb-651723698362", "service": "fb", "text": "Pablo: http://www.jefftk.com/p/parenting-and-happiness", "timestamp": "1394816678"}, {"author": "Nisan", "source_link": "https://www.facebook.com/jefftk/posts/651700270312?comment_id=651730634462", "anchor": "fb-651730634462", "service": "fb", "text": "Thanks, this is relevant to my interests too :)", "timestamp": "1394821813"}, {"author": "Adam Yie", "source_link": "https://plus.google.com/114873051319510815414", "anchor": "gp-1394838288184", "service": "gp", "text": "Might be worth pointing out that you also minimized guest costs by organizing places to stay for a number of out-of-town folks.", "timestamp": 1394838288}, {"author": "Julia", "source_link": "https://www.facebook.com/jefftk/posts/651700270312?comment_id=651836292722", "anchor": "fb-651836292722", "service": "fb", "text": "Pablo: Good to know there's a general upward trend in happiness as I age, but as David Chudzicki points out, the next few years are likely to see a dip for us.", "timestamp": "1394916253"}, {"author": "David Chudzicki", "source_link": "https://www.facebook.com/jefftk/posts/651700270312?comment_id=651837190922", "anchor": "fb-651837190922", "service": "fb", "text": "I only meant to be pointing out that you're becoming parents (presumably different from just aging regardless of what the effect is) and that Jeff had looked into what was known. :)", "timestamp": "1394917125"}]}