{"items": [{"author": "Victor", "source_link": "https://www.facebook.com/jefftk/posts/203316986415958?comment_id=203338433080480", "anchor": "fb-203338433080480", "service": "fb", "text": "What if one of you needs more sleep than the other? Or more demands at work?", "timestamp": "1322660723"}, {"author": "Jeff Kaufman", "source_link": "https://www.facebook.com/jefftk/posts/203316986415958?comment_id=203338679747122", "anchor": "fb-203338679747122", "service": "fb", "text": "@Victor: I don't understand what you're asking.", "timestamp": "1322660774"}, {"author": "Danner", "source_link": "https://plus.google.com/114987071963782993407", "anchor": "gp-1322663680880", "service": "gp", "text": "Jeff, in reference to what victor said: Rose needs 8-9 hours of sleep, I need 4-6. if we both worked long days, I might have 5 hours of free time more than Rose. Is that OK?", "timestamp": 1322663680}, {"author": "Victor", "source_link": "https://www.facebook.com/jefftk/posts/203316986415958?comment_id=203356373078686", "anchor": "fb-203356373078686", "service": "fb", "text": "I mean equal free time may be an unequal challenge for two different people, depending on biology and external forces. Equal time on household tasks can also feel unequal based on each individual's personal preferences as well.", "timestamp": "1322663923"}, {"author": "Jeff Kaufman", "source_link": "https://plus.google.com/103013777355236494008", "anchor": "gp-1322665575558", "service": "gp", "text": "@Danner\n I don't know. Julia and I need similar amounts of sleep so it hasn't come up. I include sleep in with leisure time because it is pleasant, especially at the margin.", "timestamp": 1322665575}, {"author": "Jeff Kaufman", "source_link": "https://www.facebook.com/jefftk/posts/203316986415958?comment_id=203368219744168", "anchor": "fb-203368219744168", "service": "fb", "text": "@Victor, @Elizabeth: The main idea in trying to divide equally by time is to let us enjoy similar amounts of the other things we like doing.
\"Equal time on household tasks can also feel unequal based on each individual's personal preferences as well.\"
We've tried to align tasks with what we enjoy to some extent. Mostly this just means the fraction of julia's housework that is cooking is higher.", "timestamp": "1322666084"}, {"author": "Julia", "source_link": "https://www.facebook.com/jefftk/posts/203316986415958?comment_id=203558769725113", "anchor": "fb-203558769725113", "service": "fb", "text": "I want to divide time equally because after reading the studies on how unevenly men and women divide household work, I want to be sure I'm not getting stuck with a disproportionate second shift. And I'm not.", "timestamp": "1322693910"}, {"author": "Kiran", "source_link": "https://www.facebook.com/jefftk/posts/203316986415958?comment_id=203739779707012", "anchor": "fb-203739779707012", "service": "fb", "text": "Hmm. Do those studies also attempt to determine how men and women value household work?", "timestamp": "1322727490"}]}